The Shift In Dating Apps We All Need! It's Time to Think Inside The Box - The Search Box
Search for dating profiles the way you search the internet...True Story, talk about a matching algorithm!!
You're not for everyone.
You never were.
And that’s the point.
We built a dating app for people who aren’t trying to appeal to the masses.
Just trying to find their person—or people—who understand them.
The ones who feel like home.
So we built a search bar.
Not a feature. A shift.
On Start With Me, every profile has two parts:
Public fields—what you choose to share with others.
Hidden fields—what you write privately. These are visible only to you and the system. Never shown to anyone else. Ever.
But when someone searches—we check both.
Because the parts you say quietly still deserve to be heard.
Maybe it's your values. Your pace. Your healing.
Maybe it's the kink behind your charm.
The medical truth that matters.
The silly dealbreakers or very specific green flags.
Whatever you write, if someone’s looking for it, you can show up.
This is how dating starts to feel like possibility again.
You're not waiting for an algorithm to guess who you want.
You're not stuck inside generic filters.
You’re showing up—with your words—and the system is listening.
And the best part?
You don’t need a niche app to find your people.
You don’t have to split yourself across five platforms to be fully seen.
Start With Me lets you stay in a big dating pool—while searching for the exact kind of person you’re hoping to find.
Write it in.
Your truth has a place here.
This isn’t about gaming the system. It’s about trusting that if you say what matters, someone out there might be ready to meet you there.
That’s what this search unlocks.
It’s not flash. It’s not hype.
It’s just a better way to connect—because it starts with you.
Start With Me
Say it clearly.
We’ll help them find you.